CARING for someone else’s child may not be everyone’s idea of a good time, but for Helen Fox of Frankston North, it’s what she does best.
Ms Fox has been “mum” to more than 300 children during her 29 years as a foster carer, and she’s not ready to stop just yet.
“When I can’t hold a baby in my arms anymore, that’s when I’ll stop,” she said.
Ms Fox’s tremendous generosity was recognised last week by OzChild, and she was awarded the prestigious Robin Clark Protecting Children award by Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS).
With four children of her own, it has not always been an easy decision to take in children in need, but Ms Fox said the experience had been rewarding beyond words.
“I’ve made a lot of friends and many loving, lifelong connections, some of my past foster children still come to see me and bring their own children to visit.”
As a 23-year-old just moving into a new house, and with a toddler of her own, Ms Fox received her first charge – a baby. Two more came straight after the first, and the door did not stop opening.
“Yes, it was pretty scary at first, but the reward of seeing frightened and helpless children leave your care happier and more secure is all I need,” she said.
“When I first started all those years ago, I thought I’d take in a couple of pre-adoptive babies and give it up when they went after about six months.
“But I couldn’t say no and the babies and children kept coming.”
OzChild CEO Lisa Sturzenegger said Ms Fox was nominated by OzChild staff and the principal at Seaford Park Primary School for her “warmth, strength, no-nonsense attitude and wicked sense of humour that makes foster children feel welcome and loved.”
Ms Fox’s case worker Ashanti Kulasekera said Helen was an “incredibly committed carer” who dedicates her life to ensuring children are safe, nurtured and loved.
“She always puts the needs of others before her own and is very well known in her community for doing so”.
OzChild is looking for more people willing to become foster carers. If you are interested in becoming a foster carer, call 9212 3900.